If you've decided to self-host — for data control, no per-token markup, or central governance — these are the leading open-source options. None is universally "best"; the right one depends on whether you optimize for features, throughput, observability, or enterprise operations.
Four concrete reasons: your traffic and keys stay in your infrastructure; no per-token markup (you pay providers directly); central governance — virtual keys, budgets, rate limits across a team; and on-prem / air-gapped or compliance needs your infra already satisfies. The trade-off is real operational work.
| Gateway | Strength / best when |
|---|---|
| LiteLLM | Broadest coverage — 100+ providers, virtual keys, budgets, load balancing. The default first choice. |
| Bifrost | Go-native, very low overhead at high request rates. Pick when throughput/latency dominate. |
| Portkey Gateway | Open-source, edge-deployable gateway with routing, caching and guardrails. |
| Helicone | Observability-first — logging, caching, monitoring with a gateway. Pick when you need visibility. |
| Higress | Envoy/Istio-based, cloud-native — AI gateway for Kubernetes shops wanting an enterprise data plane. |
| Kong | AI plugins on a battle-tested API-gateway data plane — RBAC, audit, semantic caching at enterprise scale. |
| Your priority | Start with |
|---|---|
| Broadest features, fastest to adopt | LiteLLM |
| Lowest overhead / high throughput | Bifrost |
| Observability & cost visibility | Helicone |
| Edge deploy + guardrails | Portkey Gateway |
| Enterprise Kubernetes + audit | Higress / Kong |
Self-hosted or not, a proxy can still misbehave after a misconfiguration or upgrade — silently swapping models, fake-streaming, or misreporting usage. Run the canary fidelity test against your deployment, and pin to a known-good release.
No single winner — LiteLLM for breadth, Bifrost for throughput, Helicone for observability, Higress/Kong for enterprise K8s.
It's the common default for breadth and governance; pick something else if throughput, observability or enterprise K8s is your top priority.
Go-native gateways like Bifrost target low overhead — but benchmark with your own traffic before committing.
Self-host for data control / no markup / governance (if you can run a service); hosted for zero ops and fastest reach.